I was once asking: why there are divorced people who are not married again?

Some choose not to, some choose to but can’t, some with other reason. 

It’s interesting to learn those who choose not to. 

They live well, healthy, can easily find another person. But choose not to.

So why?

What we don’t understand yet (as we never been there), is that they have ‘arrived’.

They have found, and they have been found. So they choose to stay.

But what most people don’t understand, is that being “arrived” doesn’t need to be during/ after the marriage. One may be arrived before marriage, even though not being able to do the marriage for any reason.

And we live in society which understanding about relationship is that, if it’s over, one need to find the new one.

But not everyone have to find the new one. Especially when one is arrived. Before, or after the marriage.

So why lie to the new person if if it’s only to satisfy what regular people understand? Why lie to the new person if it’s only to be “normal” like the rest? Why lie to the new person, if it’s not a genuine feeling?

Why lie to the new person if you’ll end up lying to yourself?